ACCEPTANCE...

I personally feel that to understand your partner inside out, we should live together for some time before we confirm that he or she's the one we gonna live together forever. But of coz, in Singapore, the culture don't allow most of us to live together. U can... but i believe parents, esp the girl's parents will mind if their daughter lives together with her boyfriend. Well, my folks mind. So some of us will start to travel together, instead of going out shopping, movies etc... couples tend to stay at home, some friends of mine even stay over night at the partner's place. But i personally feel that that's not enough to know someone inside out. But of coz it depends... Some works, some don't.

Are we so comfy with each other that you burp or even fart, dress down without makeup etc with the presence of your partner? I think if we can do all these nasty actions in front of your partner... and he or she can accept it... he or she could be the one. Of coz this is a very very minor role in the relationship. There's many more reasons to be withsomeone you love...

Alvin and I were lucky... we get to live together when we are studying in Australia for 1.5yrs.. (sshh... mum and dad still don't know abt this). We are doing well and we accept who we are, esp our ugly side. I think that's also part of the reason why our relationship is still alive - ACCEPTANCE.

Now we travel alot together, just wanna be together and relaz, esp when we go Batam for SPA... We will be away to KL on 16 to 18 Dec with Yunxian and Joe (we will be going for the SPA too). CAN'T WAIT!!!! And on 24th to 26th Dec, just alvin and I, will be in Batam for the SPA!!! Can't wait for the SPAZZIE mth!